In life, everyone’s emotions will have ups and downs, perhaps because of the influence of the external environment, or because of changes in one’s own state of mind. Whenever you encounter something that doesn’t go your way, you can’t help but vent it. Therefore, the ancients in China attached great importance to educating a person to cultivate one’s body and mind, and to take care of one’s body and mind. If a person wants to take care of himself, he must first take care of his temper and emotions. If you are tied up by emotions and become a thorn in your heart, your life will be very painful.
Many things and many people in life may not necessarily occupy much place in your mind, and may not have much impetus to your future career, but it is just to test whether your heart is strong. Everyone feels relaxed when they meet happy things. But life will give you a lot of bad things, make you pessimistic and lose, and make you angry. When encountering such a thing, you will only sulk in your heart, which is useless at all, and it also shows your incompetence, so you must strengthen your heart.
It is said in “Little Window”: ” Arguing is better than negligence, and speaking is better than being silent. ” It seems that only when a person gets angry with others can he show his eloquence and intelligence. In fact, no matter how much you say, it is better not to say anything, and no matter how good you say it, it is better to keep silent. Everyone speaks according to their own position, and no one can convince anyone. People who dislike you can find reasons to attack and refute you no matter what you say. If you argue with him, you are being fooled by him.
To be a human being, you must know that your time and energy are the most precious, and there is no point in proving yourself to someone who is not worth it. You can’t understand me, and I can’t understand you, so just have less contact and deal less. They don’t let each other go, they get angry when they see each other, and they live in sulking every day, which not only affects your career, but also has a great impact on your body. Some small things should pass, let it pass, don’t think about it, and add burden to yourself.
“Little Window” said: ” Only frugality can help integrity, but forgiveness can become virtue. ” A person who lives frugally will become clean and honest, neither greedy for material pleasures nor greedy for other people’s things. A person who knows tolerance and generosity will improve a lot in virtue and self-cultivation. Progress in life is actually a very simple matter. As long as you are willing to give up something, you will not live too tired, and you will not lose your mind in vulgarity and calculation, and live in a mess.
Many people in this world feel that they are not living happily. This does not mean that they do not have enough food and clothing, and their lives are miserable. In fact, the more we eat and wear warm clothes, the less contented we are, the mind cannot keep up with material things, and the existing wisdom cannot solve the problems in life. There is only one life, and everyone has their own style. We come to this world once, not to compete with anyone. It’s better to think more about happy things, not to be angry or angry, and to be at ease, wouldn’t it be better?